Are you a countdown to the happiest day of your life. But sometimes it feels as if the world falls apart. Half of our guests have not returned their RSVP, you're late for the third dress fitting in two weeks, a restaurateur has just called to tell you that they are no longer able to offer the chicken Marsala. It's easy to get lost in the frenzy of wedding planning, but it is important to remember what is truly important. You have found the love of your life and you're about to start a life together. So when the going gets tough, try to solve tasks in a more quiet way. Here are some useful tips.
do not have to invite all of you have ever met. Of course, your immediate family needs to share the special day. But you will not lose your work without colleagues you barely know, and your cousin Jill will still be on speaking terms with you, even if you do not call the latest in a series of her boyfriend.
Do not let your size affect you. Wear a wedding dress that will look great in no matter what. Crash dieting to fit into a dress two sizes too small just to reduce its already depleting energy. If you eat healthy and exercise, you lose a few pounds bonus, and you'll look fit and fabulous on the big day.
to accept that your perfect day can not go perfectly. On May rain, limo May get stuck in traffic, or you May get a blemish the size of Texas on the nose. These things are beyond your control. Concerns about them ahead of time will only makes them worse. Just remember that rain on your wedding day is a sign of a long and happy marriage, that got a lot on the limo, and that you will wear the veil of half a day anyway, so who really will notice a small skin imperfections?
an innocent mistake does not justify their angry meltdown. Kindness is an expression of your love and compassion for others. It includes a nurse, who broke a few crystals of your tiara while trying to "really make it shine." She was only trying to help. Some super glue and a steady hand to fix your wig, but it is not so easy to fix a broken friendship.
Respect people's time and energy, and they will respect you in return. You did not just steal from her godmother adding "something borrowed" for their permanent collection of jewelry. He also cheated on her asking if she could pick up my dress from the seamstress, favors from the craft store, and your creepy cousin at the airport. While it is okay to delegate certain responsibilities, do not ask for a wedding party at all or you and your fiance can find themselves alone at the altar!
binge eating is a waste of time and money. And trying to create the fanciest wedding of their friends have ever seen can be very taxing. Yes, the wedding is a once in a life-, a unique experience. Go for the expensive dresses and swing band that you both like, but you might not buy a twelve-storey wedding cake or mini champagne bottle favors just because they are "so chic". You'll more than likely find that you have violated the bank on things that will only last a day.
compromise is key. You have always dreamed of a sunset ceremony on the shore. Your fiance says he wants to marry you Elvis at Graceland. This is your big day. You do not have to give in, but it should be open and honest about things that matter most. I agree to exchange vows on the beach, a honeymoon in Graceland.
Loose lips will only add to your anxiety. Just because one of your bridesmaids hair color bright red two weeks before the wedding does not give the right to refer to her as "carrot top" when she is not around. On the day of the ceremony, said stylist to give her an elegant up-to with a few flowers in their hair covered most of the color. Badmouthing not it blonde again.
Thank you ... and fast. Plan to write a thank you note for each of your gifts within 48 hours of receiving them. If you get a lot of gifts in a short time, say in the shower or reception, tackle ten thank yous at the same time. Breaking a long list allows you to relax while still appearing gracious.
Do not stress about your stag night. As a bride-to-be that you are almost certainly fantasized about what would transpire at the groom's bachelor party. But remember that you are his ultimate fantasy. He would not have been if they had married different. So stay cool and have a great night with your girlfriends.
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