If all the girls in the "Pride and Prejudice" came into reality, which one particular would you marry?
I was in the Student Union for a whilst at campus, then left later on due to my personal laziness. A single day later, one particular student asked a different girl who worked with me in the Student Union about me. "She......" that girl paused a bit, "is a very wise girl."
Wise, the word was stressed I understood her, it was put to use in a derogatory nature.
At that moment, I formed a doubt - to a woman, what type of smartness is appropriate, what sort of smartness will be resisted or attacked.
Elizabeth is clever given that she has self-awareness - she knows clearly what she likes to do, what she hates to do, what she can do, what she can not. For that reason, she is sophisticated at a suitable occasion, witty at an unsuitable occasion. I watched the BBC Tv series of Pride and Prejudice three instances, and like two scenes ideal: the first a single is that she played with a substantial dog close to Mr. Bennet's place, on her way to pay a visit to her sister. At that moment, Mr. Darcy saw her by accident close to a window, and admired her personal enjoyment. The other one is when Miss Darcy was playing the piano, Miss Bennet made an ironic reference toward William.
At the moment, Miss. Darcy stopped, and Elizabeth solved the trouble by apologizing with a smile, and stated that she forgot to turn the pages of the music sheet. Her voice sounds nature, her attitude suits the moment. On a single hand, she calmed the panicked Miss Darcy on the other hand, she solved the issues of Mr. Darcy on the side. The expression of Mr. Darcy at the moment worth remembering - the way he looked at Elizabeth - complete of appreciation, and then, full of love.
A clever woman that can assist the man in need to have would make them grateful but a woman that can praise the man in glorious time is what guys want.
In "Pride and Prejudice", the 3 girls reached this level are, Elizabeth, Jane and Charlotte. As a comparison, Jane was married to a dream-like life directly Charlotte was married to the life soon after a compromise and Eliza was married to a life that was altered by her personal effort.
They do not have any difference, mainly because it depends on their own wants. It is like men and women drink, and only themselves know the taste.
And there is an additional group like Lydia, she is gorgeous and is ignorant. Obtaining a very good marry only depends on luck. Still, we cannot judge on that, because she was not self-conscious about the happiness and unhappiness. As lengthy as she enjoyed the existing life, she wouldn't feel the losses.
This principle applies to all human beings - stupidity leads to happiness wisdom leads to discomfort and confusion.
- If I am a standard man, I would possibly select Charlotte. She is on the same level as I am - the desires are simple to meet and it feels secure on the side.
- If I am a bit improved, then I would choose Jane for certain. Diligent, beautiful, with the potential and cleverness to support the household outside and inside, she is the one to be married.
- Even so, if my own condition is so outstanding that all ladies want me, then I would choose out an Elizabeth for certain. It is significant to obtain a woman with the style and taste that is on the identical level as I am.
It is absolutely nothing a lot more than to see who's extra potent inside and outside.
But if you do not have the EQ and IQ, then get a Lydia is good enough. At least she is effortless - does not take too substantially time.
I remembered the time at campus, when I was fighting with my boyfriend. He mentioned angrily, that a woman cannot be coaxed by money is so troublesome. I laughed, for this realistic and funny line. In this extended life, getting some thing difficult just after one thing uncomplicated is pretty cool, as lengthy as we have a broader thoughts and a stronger heart. Solitude is nothing to be afraid of what we really should fear is self-hypnosis.
Fully grasp the situation, do not dream for the fantasy. If someone said to you that you are too clever for him, think him, he is not very good sufficient for you, whether that is a truth or an excuse.
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